Helping People Smh...

[Dread Retired Posts:533 Threads:79 Reputation 92]

I'm legit starting to get annoyed with some people I know..

They expect me to do everything for them and not help themselves..like wtf!!!

Most of the time I get hit up by kids who want to be spoon fed 

About coding or making a stealth server with the source they bought, again tf??

When I know for a fact that server isn't going to last like TamperedLive or NiNJA...

Just gets so annoying, I just needed to vent this out and I honestly feel like just removing those people from accessing ways to message me!!

Anyone else feel like being "too nice/helpful" is taken advantage by someone?

[Wubz Emerald Member Posts:183 Threads:0 Reputation 56]

I feel you with this, people take my kindness for weakness.

[Dread Retired Posts:533 Threads:79 Reputation 92]

I feel you with this, people take my kindness for weakness.

Exactly, well put bro!
Sickens me anymore :(

[Red Painting the town Red Posts:3,741 Threads:227 Reputation 92]

Just tell them to use Google. Simple and fast.

[Crow DF Member Posts:72 Threads:5 Reputation 0]

All the time.
Probably the worse personality trait I have is that I lack the ability to simply be so dismissing like I find so much of the population to be.

People today and especially this new generation are so dismissive about helping anyone, but they want to suck like leeches onto people for constant help, afraid to go out and figure things out themselves.
Sometimes I wonder if the generation of today is really just that helpless or if it's that they just think whatever knowledge you bestowed upon them came automatically figured out and should be a given and expected for them as no work was used to obtain it.

It really scares me when I think about it.
People act like whatever they try should offer a free silver spoon service to make their lives easier.

It makes my head spin, but I digress.

[Huanglongmon Mega Digimon Posts:443 Threads:23 Reputation 28]

I'm legit starting to get annoyed with some people I know..

They expect me to do everything for them and not help themselves..like wtf!!!

Most of the time I get hit up by kids who want to be spoon fed 

About coding or making a stealth server with the source they bought, again tf??

When I know for a fact that server isn't going to last like TamperedLive or NiNJA...

Just gets so annoying, I just needed to vent this out and I honestly feel like just removing those people from accessing ways to message me!!

Anyone else feel like being "too nice/helpful" is taken advantage by someone?

Try being a MM on a selling website. People think you know everything :noh:

[Red Painting the town Red Posts:3,741 Threads:227 Reputation 92]

If it's something I know I can get time to do and I know I can do it, I won't have any trouble saying yes and helping. If I don't have the time to do something, or I don't know how to do it, I will say no. It's really that simple with me.